The prince naturally occurring mechanism in the child already in the belly of the mother is sucking. The instinct to allow the baby to suck the breast of the mother and / or bottle.
Mothers know that in the first months of life the child spends his waking hours to suck, and later at the hearing, using his mouth to explore the things around him. This mechanism causes pleasurable sensations, is un'antidoto with fear and sense of loneliness is in infants and older children.
The pacifier helps your baby to sleep, to calm the crying more stubborn to autoconsolarlo when the mother is not there ', a way to download the tensions and to make him feel safe and secure: this is used to hold the pacifier is not harmful, a priori, it is important not to abuse it because that would make it more difficult to leave and because the content of pacifier use causes no harm to irreversible dental arches, especially if used within 3 years of age. Moreover, it is less harmful because of thumb sucking exerts less pressure on the teeth and the mother is easier to manage when it decides to make him stop.
is important not to use as a lifeline when the child is not into it or whenever she cries.
Some mothers wonder what pacifier it is better to choose from. In reality there is not 'the best ever in front of the wide range of choice available on the market.
Undoubtedly the pacifier silicone material for its durability, is right in the first months of life of the child, while the tooth eruption is preferable to pass to the rubber more resistant than silicone.
On the form it is recommended that early drop-shaped, flattened and bent upward, like the nipple of the mother.
As for the diaper comes the time when it is necessary to remove the pacifier.
E 'should do this step in the three years when the child becomes more confident, in any case it is important not to suddenly stop using the pacifier: never to make it disappear without an explanation.
Some tips to start gradually: Ø
not lose patience or feel guilty if your child just can not remove it. Try to respect his psychological moment. Avoid carrying out this step along with other radical changes, such as entering kindergarten or the birth of the baby
Ø not focus on the pacifier and how to remove it before talking to the child, especially if older
or restrict the 'use the most trying situations as before to sleep or when the mother is not there '
or try to propose activities that the child with a pacifier can not do because they are "grown" Ø
distraction to other objects or activities
Some examples that I have collected some mothers from working with teachers in kindergarten:
"I took the pacifier to my son 2 years and a half going on vacation. Even if we were behind we have pretended to have forgotten at home. My son cried a few days but then with the distractions of the sea and all other games is over. "
"I took the pacifier to my children by taking advantage of Christmas Eve. I explained to them that Jesus was born, a child younger than them and that if he would have left the pacifier reciprocated with a special gift for them. Cosi 'was.
Mothers know that in the first months of life the child spends his waking hours to suck, and later at the hearing, using his mouth to explore the things around him. This mechanism causes pleasurable sensations, is un'antidoto with fear and sense of loneliness is in infants and older children.
The pacifier helps your baby to sleep, to calm the crying more stubborn to autoconsolarlo when the mother is not there ', a way to download the tensions and to make him feel safe and secure: this is used to hold the pacifier is not harmful, a priori, it is important not to abuse it because that would make it more difficult to leave and because the content of pacifier use causes no harm to irreversible dental arches, especially if used within 3 years of age. Moreover, it is less harmful because of thumb sucking exerts less pressure on the teeth and the mother is easier to manage when it decides to make him stop.
is important not to use as a lifeline when the child is not into it or whenever she cries.
Some mothers wonder what pacifier it is better to choose from. In reality there is not 'the best ever in front of the wide range of choice available on the market.
Undoubtedly the pacifier silicone material for its durability, is right in the first months of life of the child, while the tooth eruption is preferable to pass to the rubber more resistant than silicone.
On the form it is recommended that early drop-shaped, flattened and bent upward, like the nipple of the mother.
As for the diaper comes the time when it is necessary to remove the pacifier.
E 'should do this step in the three years when the child becomes more confident, in any case it is important not to suddenly stop using the pacifier: never to make it disappear without an explanation.
Some tips to start gradually: Ø
not lose patience or feel guilty if your child just can not remove it. Try to respect his psychological moment. Avoid carrying out this step along with other radical changes, such as entering kindergarten or the birth of the baby
Ø not focus on the pacifier and how to remove it before talking to the child, especially if older
or restrict the 'use the most trying situations as before to sleep or when the mother is not there '
or try to propose activities that the child with a pacifier can not do because they are "grown" Ø
distraction to other objects or activities
Some examples that I have collected some mothers from working with teachers in kindergarten:
"I took the pacifier to my son 2 years and a half going on vacation. Even if we were behind we have pretended to have forgotten at home. My son cried a few days but then with the distractions of the sea and all other games is over. "
"I took the pacifier to my children by taking advantage of Christmas Eve. I explained to them that Jesus was born, a child younger than them and that if he would have left the pacifier reciprocated with a special gift for them. Cosi 'was.
